Board games are one of the best ways to spend time with kids. They teach patience, counting and turn-taking, and they give the whole family a reason to sit down together. With so many games available, though, it helps to know what to look for. Here’s how to choose the best board games for children by age, interest and family style.
What kids learn from board games
Games teach skills without feeling like lessons:
- Counting and early math from moving spaces and adding scores
- Reading from cards and simple instructions
- Patience and turn-taking
- Good sportsmanship when winning and losing
- Planning and strategy as kids grow older
- Teamwork in cooperative games
How to choose by age
Ages 3 to 5
Little ones need very simple rules, big pieces and short games. Look for matching, color and counting games that take 10 to 15 minutes. Avoid small parts for younger children. See board games for kids for more on early games.
Ages 6 to 8
Kids this age can handle more rules and longer games. Classic games, simple card games and games with a little strategy work well. They also love themed games based on animals and favorite characters.
Ages 9 to 12
Older kids enjoy real strategy, trading and planning. Property-trading games, word games and cooperative adventures are good choices. Many are ready for family versions of adult games, and some enjoy learning chess; see our chess for beginners guide.
Themed games kids love
A theme kids care about makes them want to play again. Animals, gardens, space and favorite characters are all good bets. For kids who like nature, Community Garden has players gather water and compost and play crop cards, from dill to strawberries, to grow a garden together. Because players also help each other, it’s a gentle choice for siblings.
Active games for energetic kids
Not every game has to happen at a table. Active games let kids move while they play, which is great for birthday parties and long weekends.
The Gbruno 5-in-1 Bean Bag Toss Game offers several ways to play in one set and is designed to keep kids active and playing together. It works in the backyard, and in a basement or garage when the weather is bad. For more ideas, read our guide to outdoor lawn games.
Cooperative games for young players
In cooperative games, everyone works together to beat the game. They’re great for younger kids who get upset about losing, and for siblings who argue. Everyone wins or loses as a team.
Tips for playing with kids
Keep it short
Stop before kids get tired. It’s better to play again tomorrow than to finish a game in tears.
Adjust the rules
Simplify rules for younger players, or give them a head start.
Let them win sometimes
But not always. Kids learn from losing gracefully too.
Talk through choices
Ask “What do you think will happen if you do that?” It builds planning skills.
Make it a routine
A weekly family game night gives kids something to look forward to.
Building a family game shelf
Aim for a mix: one game for little ones, one classic, one active game and one cooperative game. Rotate them so nothing gets stale. For more classic ideas, see our classic board games hall of fame.
Games as gifts for kids
Board games make great birthday and holiday gifts for children. Check the age range on the box, avoid small pieces for young kids and think about who they’ll play with. A game they can play with siblings or parents is more likely to come off the shelf. Add a note inviting them to a family game night, and the gift becomes a shared memory.
FAQ
What age can kids start playing board games?
Many kids enjoy very simple games from around age three, with adult help.
Are cooperative games good for kids?
Yes. They teach teamwork and reduce arguments over winning and losing.
How long should a kids’ game last?
For young children, 10 to 20 minutes. Older kids can play for an hour or more.
Are active games like bean bag toss good for parties?
Yes. They’re easy to learn, keep kids moving and let everyone join in.
How do I handle a child who hates losing?
Start with cooperative games, praise good effort rather than winning, and model being a good loser yourself. Short games help, because a loss is soon followed by another try.
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